The Princess Bride
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The Princess Bride reminds you that true love endures, courage matters, and faith carries you through every trial—because the greatest stories are never finished.

The Princess Bride (1987) Rated PG

Directed by Rob Reiner    Production Company: Castle Rock Productions

Starring Robin Wright, Cary Elwes, Mandy Patinkin, Andre the Giant, Wallace Shawn, Christopher Guest, Chris Sarandon, Billy Crystal, Carol Kane, Peter Falk, Fred Savage

An image of the movie poster for The Princess Bride.

Opening Thoughts

Ok, so I just want to start off by saying I was never really into this movie (I can hear everyone collectively gasping right now at my sacrilege). Oh, it’s hysterical, but it was always one of those movies I’d put on while I was cleaning my room or something, like background noise. Let me explain. No, there is too much. Let me sum up: I hated Buttercup. I hated her. I hated the way she treated Westley and never understood why he loved her so much. And I could never fathom why so many people were all, “OMG this is the most romantic movie ever.” Really? Like, no seriously, REALLY? Because all I saw was a whiny young woman taking a young man’s faithful love for granted. Oh, and then abandoning him.
Now, as a comedy, it gets top marks. The Princess Bride is seriously one of the most quotable movies to ever quote, ever. You could go anywhere in the world and say, “My name is Inigo Montoya, you killed my father-” and I guarantee you someone would respond, “Prepare to die.” And Billy Crystal and Carol Kane and Miracle Max and his wife Valerie are legend.
So when I was asking the Holy Spirit about what movie to blog on next, and he put this one on my heart, my response was kind of…meh. And God then proceeded to wreck me thoroughly a mere five minutes into the movie. Read on to find out how!

An image of the grandfather reading to the boy in the The Princess Bride

SPOILERS for The Princess Bride here!

A young boy is home sick in bed, and his grandfather comes to read to him. The book is called The Princess Bride, and the boy expressed doubt that it will be any good, but his grandfather assures him it’s full of really good stuff, such as fencing, fighting, chases, escapes, miracles, and true love. They settle in to read.

The story begins with a young woman, Buttercup, who lives on a farm in a medieval setting. She loves riding her horse and bossing around the hired hand, a young man named Westley. Every demand she makes of him he responds with a simple, “As you wish.” One day she realizes that every time he says this, he’s really saying, “I love you,” and she realizes she loves him as well. Westley sets off to make his fortune, promising her that he will always come for her. Several weeks later Buttercup receives the news that Westley had been murdered by the Dread Pirate Roberts, and she vows never to love again.

A few years later, Prince Humperdinck has chosen Buttercup to be his bride, even though she tells him she will never love him.

One day while she is out riding, Buttercup is kidnapped by three men who plan to murder her in order to start a war. As they make their way with her, the leader, Vizzini, notices a strange man dressed in black who is following them. Vizzini dispatches his swordsman, Inigo, to kill him, but there is too much mutual respect between the two, and the man in black merely defeats Inigo in a swordfight and continues. The same thing happens when Vizzini tries to have Fezzik, his gentle giant, kill the man. Finally the man in black has a battle of wits with Vizzini himself as he holds Buttercup at knifepoint. He tricks Vizzini into drinking poisoned wine and frees Buttercup. The man in black reveals himself to be the Dread Pirate Roberts, and Buttercup, in a fury at the man who murdered her love, pushes him down a hill, telling him “You can die too for all I care!” As the man falls down the hill, she hears him cry out, “As you wish!” and she realizes it’s been Westley the entire time.
Westley and Buttercup reunite at the bottom of the hill, and escape into the Fire Swamp as they are being pursued by Prince Humperdinck and his second in command, Count Rugen. They make it through alive, but the men are waiting for them on the other side. Rather than lose Westley again, she makes a deal with Humperdinck that she will wed him if he allows Westley to go free. The prince agrees but secretly has Rugen imprison him in the Pit of Despair.

Buttercup eventually realizes she loves Westley too much and cannot marry the prince, and the prince agrees to send a message to him so they can be together. However he sneaks off to the Pit of Despair (where Rugen has been torturing him) and kills Westley. Meanwhile Inigo and Fezzik have reunited, and Inigo has discovered that Count Rugen is the man that murdered his father so many years ago. The two search for the “man in black” to aid them on their quest, only to find him dead in the Pit of Despair. They take his body to the miracle man, Max, who declares Westley only “mostly dead” and gives them a pill to bring him back to life. The three head to the castle where Buttercup and Humperdinck’s wedding is about to take place.
The three enter the castle, and Inigo, after a vicious swordfight where he sustains several wounds, kills Count Rugen. Westley finds Buttercup and intimidates Humperdinck so badly he is too afraid to fight him, and the three men plus Buttercup escape and live “happily ever after.”
The movie ends with the grandson asking his grandfather to come back and read to him some more tomorrow, and the grandfather states, “As you wish,” with a smile.

An image of the grandfather from The Princess Bride smiling with a hat on.

So What Did God Show Me?

-In the beginning of the movie, Buttercup is portrayed as a rather selfish, spoiled young woman. Westley, on the other hand, is patient and tireless, agreeing to her every demand with the simple words, “As you wish.” This used to make me insane. I could not, I just could not understand why gentle, sweet, faithful Westley loved someone as bossy and self-centered as Buttercup. I just always felt Buttercup was so unworthy of Westley’s devotion, and I never, never, never understood why people were so gaga about the romance in this movie. It wasn’t until I sat down to watch this movie the other night that God opened my eyes so wide He practically cranked them open with a winch.

And here’s what I saw: You guys, Buttercup is US. And Westley is Jesus. Period. We go through our lives, doing our thing, and if we think of Jesus at all, it’s a quick desperate prayer like “Please Jesus, let me find my lost earring,” or “Jesus, let me win the lottery.” Meanwhile, Jesus is over here saying he loves us enough to die for us…and like Buttercup, we don’t hear what He is really saying at all.

Even as Christians this happens. We see Jesus as a savior, someone who took on our sin to save the world. We see him as a comforter, as a healer, as a teacher, even as a King and Lord. But I know I myself did not begin to truly understand Jesus’ love for me until recently when he started doing some healing work in me.

So we are totally like Buttercup. We are not worthy of Jesus’ love and commitment either, we are way too full of ourselves. Buttercup hadn’t done anything wonderful to earn Westley’s dedication and devotion, all she did was boss him around! What changed Buttercup was Westley’s love. His love made her worthy. This is what real love does. And then it teaches you to recognize love, as Buttercup finally did with Westley. She didn’t know Westley was saying “I love you” until years of hearing “As you wish” made her see it. And once she saw it, and understood the depth of his love, she was able to return it. This, friends, is Jesus’ love for us. He is patient. He is faithful. We are not worthy. He loves us anyway. His love makes us worthy.

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-”Hear this now. I will ALWAYS come for you.” “But how can you be sure?” “This is True Love. You think this happens everyday?” 😭😭😭
I had to rewind and watch this scene like twice more because even though I’d seen it a hundred times, it was somehow like I’d never seen it before, and it was messing me up.
Jesus will ALWAYS come for us.
He will NEVER stop pursuing us.
And yes, true love happens every day, Westley was slightly off about that.
Westley is completely confident in their love. Them being permanently separated isn’t even an option, it isn’t even an idea he wastes mental energy pondering on. Guys, I’m serious, go back and watch this scene, and when you do, watch Westley. When he speaks, the way he stares at her intently, never even blinking. The way he states it: “Hear this now.” He’s not just promising, he’s proclaiming. “I will ALWAYS come for you.” And again, like us. Buttercup’s all fearful and doubtful and practical, “But how can you be sure?” Westley just stands there with this little smile on his face, like, “Lighten up, Buttercup. Trust me. Love’s got us.”

This is what Jesus says to us, all day, every day, over and over and over. “Trust me. I’ve got you. Nothing is going to happen that we can’t get through together. I’ve got you. I’ve got you. I’ve got you.”

An image of Wesley and Buttercup laying on the grass as they reunite

-In the scene where Buttercup hears the news of Westley’s death, it made me think of Mary, Peter, and John, and the rest of Jesus’s disciples. What must it have been like for them, for Mary Magdalene, to lose Jesus, to see him die? To know that that perfect love that he had for you was just suddenly…gone? And after having experienced it, knowing what you’ve lost and that nothing could ever again compare? No wonder Buttercup said, “I will never love again.” Because after a love like that, True Love from Jesus, nothing else even comes close, and you truly could never be satisfied with anything else ever again. Thank goodness we never have to go without Him. So I was wrecked all over again when Westley and Buttercup are reunited at the bottom of the ravine:
”I told you I would always come for you. Why didn’t you wait for me?”

“Well…you were DEAD.”

“Death cannot stop True Love. All it can do is delay it for a little while.”
Buttercup, with absolute solid certainty: “I will never doubt again.”
“There will never be a need.”

Let me reframe this for you a tad as the “Gospel According to the Princess Bride”:

Jesus: “I told you I would always come for you. Why didn’t you wait for me? (Why did you doubt?)”

Disciples: “Well…you were DEAD.”

Jesus (with this little Westley smile): “Death cannot stop True Love. All it can do is delay it for a little while (3 days, to be exact)

Disciples: “I will never doubt again.”

Jesus: “There will never be a need.”

(Meanwhile I’m over here sobbing uncontrollably, wrecked in the best possible way)

An image of the three pirates from Princess Bride standing in the forest.

-Geez, Vizzini is so mean! All he does is yell at Fezzik and Inigo. You’d think someone as skilled with a sword as Inigo and someone as strong as Fezzik wouldn’t let him trash all over them. It’s so crazy because Fezzik could legit flatten Vizzini with like, a sneeze. And Inigo, I know Inigo could lay him open like a fillet steak. But Vizzini is sneaky as well as smart. He’s just a little guy, and needs Inigo and Fezzik to do his dirty work for him. So if he keeps on focusing on reminding them of their shortcomings, he knows they’ll continue to think less of themselves and think their only value is in working as his hired help.

The enemy does this to us! The enemy uses psychological warfare on us to make us think we are way less powerful than we are. The enemy, like Vizzini, is so good with words that most of the time we unfortunately believe him when he tells us we’re useless, we’re failures, that we’re disappointments. It isn’t until Westley comes that Inigo and Fezzik have someone who truly sees them as equals and worthy opponents, and who treats them with respect (before he kicks their rear ends). Jesus neither wants nor needs us as hired help. Instead he wishes to partner with us as equals, and speaks truth to us and to our identities in him in order to remind us of who we are and what we are capable of.

-So, Westley and Buttercup have survived the Fire Swamp together, including flame spurts, lightning sand, and several hungry Rodents of Unusual Size. Westley has protected and saved her from them all. And somehow, still, Buttercup thinks that it’s up to her to fix the situation when they are facing down Humperdinck. I’d chastise her for, ahem, not paying attention, except I do the same thing all the time. Like, seriously guys, I have seen Jesus work in my life umpteen times, over and over and over, and yet when catastrophe happens somehow my first reaction is to try and think how I can fix it. Even after I literally just saw Jesus save me, provide me, protect me. This is why it was hysterical to me to see both Westley and Humperdinck’s response.
Humperdinck: “What was that?”
Westley: “What was that?”

Because of course the enemy is going to pounce right on that and be all, “Oh yeah, by all means, let’s try it your way. That will work perfectly.” Even though Westley/Jesus is right there going, “I will literally die before I let this man separate us.”

Sigh. Eventually Buttercup gets it. And so will we. Jesus is patient and faithful about reminding us, remember?

-So when he realizes that he can’t destroy Buttercup and Westley’s love, Humperdinck runs to Westley in the pit of Despair and does the only thing he can think of: he kills Westley. Humperdinck sets the Machine so high that even Count Rugen, who studies pain as a hobby, is like, “Not to fifty!” Humperdinck puts Westley through the most agonizing death ever, and thinks he’s won…sound familiar?

And Westley is brought back to life…by a miracle.

An image of the rudimentary torture contraption from The Princess Bride

-By the time of her wedding, Buttercup’s faith in her and Westley’s True Love has completely reversed itself. So much so that when Humperdinck is taunting her by telling her that Westley is dead, that he killed him himself, Buttercup responds with a knowing smile, “Then why is there fear behind your eyes?” This is the kind of faith I aspire to every day. Sometimes I get there, and some days I’m Buttercup back in the Fire Swamp trying to fix it, and sometimes I’m Buttercup at the beginning all weepy and afraid. But the truth is, no matter how we’re feeling about it, Jesus will ALWAYS come for us, because death cannot stop True Love. All it can do is delay it for a while.

Closing Thoughts

The past couple of months for me have been very exciting, very scary, and very, very rich. Kind of like this movie. Jesus has been meeting me in the secret place and bringing deep healing to places that have been wounded for decades, and it’s been…well, I don’t even have words for all of it, suffice to say that I’ve been falling in love with Jesus all over again. Not in a weird “Jesus is my boyfriend,” way, but in a way that I have finally, like Buttercup, come to rest in certain truths about Jesus’ True Love for me. He will never leave me. He will always come for me. Nothing can separate us permanently. He loves me completely even when I’m being a bossy trash person because He sees the real person beneath all that. His love makes me worthy of him. He can be trusted beyond any and all others. He is patient. He is kind. And he is willing to walk through fire and tear the world apart to get to me.
And he will come back and re-read the story to me as many times as I need to hear it. “As you wish.”
He wants to do this for you, too. And I highly recommend it. Friends, this is True Love. And it does happen, every single day.

Do you understand the kind of love Jesus has for you? Really?

Reading:

“And I am convinced that nothing can ever separate us from God’s love. Neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither our fears for today nor our worries about tomorrow—not even the powers of hell can separate us from God’s love. No power in the sky above or in the earth below—indeed, nothing in all creation will ever be able to separate us from the love of God that is revealed in Christ Jesus our Lord.” – Romans 8:38-39

Challenge:
You may know Jesus as a savior, a comforter, a support, a King, even a protector. But have you ever stopped and tried to comprehend the fiery, fierce, and unrelenting love He has for you? Take some time to ponder on that this week, maybe let it wreck in the most wonderful way. Because it’s totally true.

Links I Like

Links I like:

The Princess Bride trailer

The Princess Bride Deluxe Edition for sale at Bookish!

The Princess Bride “Home Movie” – during Covid a ton of famous people used their phones to recreate the entire Princess Bride movie in their homes during lockdown and it’s the best thing you will watch all day, trust me.

”As You Wish” by Cary Elwes, a memoir of the making of the movie. I also HIGHLY recommend the audio book read by Elwes

The Princess Bride “Honest Trailer”

The Princess Bride on Cinema Therapy

-”Storybook Love” official music video

”As You Wish” guided journal

Princess Bride board game (one of many)

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